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If you’re waiting for your husband to agree to attend or start couples coaching with you I completely understand where you’re coming from.
Here’s what I want you to know.
Most men are hesitant to see a marriage coach/therapist and will create all the excuses they can to avoid this from happening.
One of the reasons why they do this is, – They don’t believe that the problems you both have require external help.
They think you guys can figure out how to handle your issues by yourselves. I mean you’ve done it before right?
But you know very well that the last time you tried to handle it yourselves it didn’t help and you’re also still upset about things that happened in the past (but they don’t get or see this).
Another reason they don’t want to get external help can be because of their ego – Generally, men have big egos.
Even when they know that there’s a problem but they feel embarrassed and their egos won’t allow them to believe that anyone else can give them a solution.
This is called ego leading. I want you to notice when you’re being led by your ego so you don’t fall into the same trap of believing what they’re saying.
Coaches and therapists have had the right training so they’re able to help you find the solutions to the problems that you’re going through,
So, don’t join the doubt gang and think that your marriage will stay the same if you reach out for help.
At this point, you know that if things keep going as they are, nothing will change, and you’ll keep suffering and continue considering divorce as the only way out.
Here is what you need to know: you don’t need your husband to agree to attend couples coaching, you can simply start attending individual coaching for your marriage.
You can save your marriage alone without your husband participating in marriage coaching.
If you know there’s a problem then stop waiting for him. Start now (alone) and watch how coaching changes your life and your marriage.
You’re a leader in your marriage, (even though you’re not recognised by society) you know very well that without you taking action everything will simply collapse.
This is what I help women with within my one-on-one coaching programme. I help you stop feeling frustrated and unhappy in marriage.
⚡️PS: Are you ready to stop wondering whether you married the wrong guy?
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