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The fear of failing is real and it exists in us.
Sometimes it shows up in ways we wouldn’t expect
You might be afraid/resistant to pay for a service like coaching because of you being
afraid to fail
What if it doesn’t work out and you don’t get results,
what if even after getting coached you still decide on leaving
In the old marketing world way. I would’ve tried to convince you that
you shouldn’t be afraid or have fears about investing for the sake of your marriage.
But that would be a lie.. Saying that would be me trying to market to you, and basically just get you to invest in my coaching.
The truth is
You should have fear because fear is an experience that is part of the living world…
Saying you shouldn’t have fear is invalidating how you feel.
My coaching program investment starts from 2000 USD, why wouldn’t you be afraid of paying?
That might be your whole mortgage payment.
So it’s okay for you to be sceptical.
Think about it deeply
There are a few ways you can think this through that’ll help you come up with a quick decision,
Instead of beating around the bush with overthinking about whether you should pay and risk it or not..?
Use these next few thoughts to help you in making a decision and reuse them later when making other decisions where the fear of failure tends to show up….
First I’ll share examples of how the fear of failing has shown up in our lives before without us even knowing.
When getting married one knows and understands that there’s a risk factor involved which is that it’s possible that this human can cheat on you, but still you go ahead and marry them anyway.
This human can still one day decide to leave you without notice or anything….. But one still takes the risks and gets married.
This same human can die leaving you alone with kids to raise after all those years of being together. But we still go ahead and get married…
When we have kids, we know it’s possible that any living human can suddenly die at any time on any day and when we bring our kids into this world, we know it’s possible that they too could leave us yet we still bring them into this world anyway.,
We know how cruel the world has become and when we decide to have kids we know sometimes they’ll probably face the same cruelty in this world from things like bullying, racism, etc.
Notice a pattern here?
Now, these aren’t fears that you’ve actively thought about…. These fears are internal fears…
You can agree that when you think about it this way you realize that you’ve been taking risks all your life despite the possibility of failing..
It’s only that you might not have ever thought about it that way…
There are so many more examples I could give – but I love using those two while making decisions I’m afraid of because they remind me that the fear I have is a normal part of being a human.
Fear is never new even though it acts like it is sometimes…
Throughout your life, you’ve done many things despite not knowing for sure what the outcome will be…
So when you’re afraid of paying me to coach you on how to get your marriage better (so you don’t end up with a broken marriage)
Ask yourself… be honest with yourself… remember you’re not doing this for me, you’re doing this for you, and your future…
Are you afraid that
You might not get the results?
You might waste your savings? (Yeap lots of my clients pay with their savings)
Is it that you feel your marriage isn’t worth paying for or worth risking the money to pay for a service that can help save it?
Is it that you’ve lost all hope that your marriage can even improve?
Is it that you think you need your husband with you to be in the coaching as well? (you think you both need to attend the coaching for it to work?)
Also here’s a disclaimer
I will teach you everything I know that you can apply in your marriage and save it…
The only reason you might not succeed is if you don’t apply and implement what we coach together…
After the 5 weeks, I ask all my clients if they feel anything changing and if they don’t despite applying what they’ve learnt from me, then I usually break our contract and let them free… there’s no point in you paying money if nothing is changing .. yes I’m that serious…
You’ve read this far because you’re interested and something is holding you back!!!
Let me know below, I have a few surprises!
What’s the reason you’re not investing in marriage?
⚡️PS: Do you want to stop feeling like you’re drifting apart and instead improve your relationship with your husband so it goes back to the way it used to be?
Then come work with me in my one-on-one coaching programme, “Revive Your Marriage Coaching”.