One Common Mistake that You’re Making in Your Marriage

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One common mistake that you’re making in your marriage is 

Trying to fix or change your husband.

Have you ever thought that if your husband/partner changed, you would have a happier marriage/relationship,  or be in a much better place? 

“If only he would start listening to me, we wouldn’t fight “anymore.”

Then you start googling how to make your husband listen to you. 

You get tips from the internet and start using them to fix him and try to change him.

You’re doing this because you have this story. 

If you can fix his listening skills, then everything will be better. 

And he will start listening more and getting you more, right? 

Trying to fix or change him will not improve your marriage.

The thing is, we can not control other people.

We can not control their thinking too. 

If you cannot control other people or their thoughts, you should focus on what you can control.

Your thoughts about them,

Thoughts about what they do, 

you get curious about them and yourself.

This doesn’t mean you ignore what’s going on and wait for it to pass by distracting yourself.

Ignoring or trying to numb how you feel, stops you from experiencing negative emotions, and you escape processing your emotions. 

Does this sound like something you find yourself doing or are tempted to do? 

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