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Should I stay in my marriage or leave?
“I’m not sure if I love him anymore. He’s changed so much.”
There are times during or after an argument with your husband/partner you might have doubted whether you even love him anymore.
You’ve thought maybe it was a mistake that you’re with him.
or wondered why he’s changed so much.
You wish if only he could change, then you’d be happy in this relationship.
You’d have fewer arguments,
have more things to do together,
have more intimacy
And you’d have a more fun time together.
But you may be thinking that these things aren’t happening at the moment because of how he’s changed.
And you feel like he doesn’t care about you, he just cares about himself.
He doesn’t help you with the kids or things in the house like he should.
Maybe you’re now questioning whether you should stay or leave?
Maybe you’re worried that if you leave, starting again would be a nightmare.
No doubt the process of being a single mom and keeping up with the finances can be daunting.
And if I walked in and found you right where you are now, and I asked you why you’re so unhappy in your relationship, you’d tell me it’s because of what my husband/partner does and how he behaves
You probably think his actions and behaviours are causing the suffering and unhappiness that you have in your relationship right now.
What if I told you it’s not?
What if I explained to you that he isn’t the cause of your suffering, he isn’t the reason you’re unhappy in your relationship?
What if I also told you it’s not your fault all that is happening.
You are now wondering if it’s not him who’s causing it then who, right?
That’s where I come in.
Allow me to be your life coach, and I will coach you on where the problem is coming from and what’s causing it.
To be honest; once you know the cause, you’ll decide to either solve it or keep enduring the suffering.