Why You’re Feeling Like Your Marriage is Slowly Drifting Away

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Before, you used to do things together at the beginning of your marriage, and at times he’d even help with things in the house;

You loved and cared for him, and you used to feel his love towards you as well.

You had this vision of a beautiful family that you two would start together. 

But recently, so much has changed, you’ve started a family just as you’d once wished, kids came, but how you feel about him seems to be changing and it’s not the same as it was before. 

I mean, you’re not to blame if how you feel about him has changed. After all, you’re just human.

The weekly arguments and disagreements would bring nothing except disconnection between the both of you.

He’s not helping you with things at home, and you feel like he’s prioritising his work more than he’s prioritising your family; he’s left you to handle things alone.

You feel unsupported physically and emotionally, your goals and dreams have become stagnant for a few years now, and sometimes you may feel like you’ve completely lost direction,

You sometimes muster up the courage and bring this to his attention, but nothing seems to be changing; promises of change are there, but he never commits to them.

This can be frustrating as you keep waiting for him to take action so you can see your life change and start feeling like you again.

Maybe you’re wondering what happened between you two. 

The answer is that you’ve both lost the connection you had at the beginning of your marriage.

And it’s possible to bring it back, but it requires one person to take action and start working on how to get back that connection.

Loss of connection in marriage is quite common, but there is so much shame and stigma around it. Thus, people don’t talk about it often. 

Even your friends could be going on like everything is fine in their marriage, but in reality, that might not be the case. 

Most people are covering it up and acting like everything is fine, but they wish things would go back to normal and they could get back the connection they once had with their partners. 

For those who reach out for help, they see changes. For those who take no action and wait for marriage problems to solve themselves, nothing changes, and the suffering continues.

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